Hold ur anger - fence (:
Wednesday, January 16, 2008 @ 5:12 PM
There once was a little girl who had a bad temper.
Her mother gave her a bag of nails and told her that
every time she lost her temper,
she must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.
The first day the girl had driven 37 nails into the fence.
Over the next few weeks, as she learned to control her anger,
the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down.
She discovered it was easier to hold her temper
than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the girl didn't
lose her temper at all.
She told her mother about it and the
mother suggested that the girl now pull out one nail
for each day that she was able to hold her temper.
The days passed and the young girl was finally
able to tell her mother that all the nails were gone.
The mother took her daughter by the hand
and led her to the fence.
She said, "You have done well, my daughter,
but look at the holes in the fence.
The fence will never be the same.
When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one."
You can put a knife in a person and draw it out.
It won't matter how many times you say "I'm sorry",
the wound is still there.
A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Friends are very rare jewels, indeed.
They make you smile and encourage you to succeed.
They lend an ear, they share words of praise and
they always want to open their hearts to us.
got this from the MeL. =)
really nice of Mrs kwoh to post it for us.
and these story is really nice. =)
will post once every week. =P
lalala~
shall end here. =)
phyiso is getting on my nerves! =(
byes!
